Thursday, October 28, 2010

Relationship sabotage - Sabotage patterns - NOTE

Here are some of the key relationship sabotage patterns:

  • Romantic vision does not match reality - you might hold to the romantic dream in unrealistic ways
  • Unrealistic expectations about your date or partner
  • Being too picky
  • Etc.
Here are more general ideas about sabotage qualities you might bring in and what you want to turn them into:

RIGIDITY >> FLEXIBILITY
CONTROL >> TRUST
CONTROL >> FREEDOM
COMPETITION >> COLLABORATION
CONFLICT >> SYNERGY
DEMANDS >> FREEDOM
EMOTIONAL THREAT >> RESPECT
PRESSURE >> OPENNESS
INTOLERANCE >> RESPECT