Thursday, October 28, 2010

Relationship sabotage - Positive conversation - Role play - NOTE

  • Person 1 - share dilemma 

for instance... "I want to date you but realize that I want my freedom too - what do you suggest I do with that?"

  • Person 2 - Acknowledge, listen, respect, understand
For instance... "I totally understand that you want your freedom - I totally respect that - I am not here to limit you, on the contrary, I admire the fact that you are so direct and I am totally ok with what you say."

Instead of... "Whaou! I can't believe this! You could have told me that ealier instead of wasting my time! Good bye and don't contact me again!"