Sabotage happens because love is not strong enough in you.
The best way to tackle sabotage is simply to increase love in you. If you increase love, you connect with a source of inspiration that will give you more energy and support to simply do the right thing.
The goal is to build more:
- Sexual attraction
Here are some of love and sexual attraction building techniques I can think off:
- Energy techniques like sound, breathing, movement (have a whole chapter on those, so I won't expand here)
- Breathe together
- Share what you like about the other person - Go deep with that
- Eye contact / Smile
- Feed each other some fruit
- Sensual hand play
- Whisper in each other's ear the most sensual experience you ever had - Share exactly how this made you feel.
Those are games we can play with when having a live event - You can as well practice these with a date or partner as a way to build up intimacy