Friday, October 29, 2010

Relationship sabotage - the core ideas we identified so far - NOTE

So, here are the core ideas we identified so far:
  • Sabotage is caused by a conflict between two possible plans in your life.
  • Most of the sabotage has to do with avoiding pain or limitation of your freedom.
  • Self sabotage is a positive defence mechanism.
  • A lot of these defence mechanisms are not needed or overused in you.
  • Train new behaviors by taking small steps.
  • You have various possible relationship models.
  • Which model works best for you?
  • There is no right or wrong relationship, only what you want.