Thursday, October 28, 2010

Relationship sabotage - Conclusions so far - NOTE

many things come up on this topic and so far, I notice that I have two or three possible directions to go with...

The first one is simply analyzing the patterns...

I see different ways of approaching this topic...

  • Conflicting desires - like conflict between wanting to be single and wanting to be committed a committed relationship
  • Unsolved emotions - like bringing frustration, anger, sadness in a relationship
  • Avoiding pain and challenge - Need for emotional safety - conflicting with the desire to be close to someone
  • Lack of skills and experience...
  • Making the wrong choices... Being attracted to the wrong persons
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A totally different approach is the LOVE BUILDING approach which perfectly complements these previous approaches.

Once we understand the basic challenges, that's the solution... Love building