Sunday, January 17, 2010

Identify your key challenges - ARTICLE

The first step you want to take is to identify the challenging areas in your relationship.

Here is a list of possible topics:

· Fights

· Sex and intimacy

· Communication with your partner

· Understanding him

· Jealousy issues

· Lack of romance, love or passion

· Life dissatisfaction

· Midlife crisis

· Lack of purpose or vision for your relationship

· Cheating or infidelity

· Household issues

· Children’s education

· Addictions or life style issues

Check this list and mark the ones you feel are an issue.

Take the three most challenging ones.

In the coming month, decide to find a solution for these.

When you break down a challenge into very specific areas, you actually reduce the problem to its real size.

This is the first step.