Wednesday, December 16, 2009

Threat to couples and family life? - ARTICLE

Not at all!

This is one of the great misunderstandings around tantra.

Practicing tantra does not mean that you will go around sleeping with anyone.

It does not mean either that you don’t respect family values.

Tantric sex is simply a way of enhancing your sex life.

When you engage into these practices, you can function within certain limits.

Yes! You can practice tantra and be 100% faithful to your partner.

It is a conscious decision you take.

The forces of tantra can literally overtake you. That’s true.

Now, part of what you have to learn is to tame this fire.

Imagine having suddenly thousands of dollars.

You can go and spend it in the most stupid ways if you don’t have a clue on how to tame that energy, right?

Same with sexual energy.

You can stimulate your sex life and do this within certain specific boundaries.

Is it possible?

Of course it is.

You are the one who decides how to express this sexual force.

You are the one who chooses the type of activity you want to engage into.

Sex has this dimension of mystery in it.

You can feel threatened by what you don’t understand.

No need to be.

By taking small steps and understanding the dynamics involved, you can break through any limiting belief you have on this topic.

Sex is a vast source of fire in you.

Not using it is like missing on one of the purest source of power and energy available in your being.